Lately i've been having some trouble with people who are ignorant, or judgemental, or people who just don't know how to get along. A couple months ago a friend of mine got a little drunk, he hadn't had much to drink before so this hit him a little hard. His life is not what he'd like it to be. His wife and kid left him, his license got suspended and he has no job. I really feel for him cause I like people and i don't like to see them sad, if i had a million dollars that's what i'd do. Help people like that. That's just the kind of person I am. Even if i didn't have a million dollars i'd help them out. As long as i had enough money to pay rent and i didn't owe anybody anything i wouldn't care about money, just give it away. Anyway, he got drunk, and we had planned this event for games and just getting together and having a fun time. He is they type to be happy drunk, now i could care less where he is as long as the person is ok. He was feeling really down, and some people randomly came over and started watching some movie in our house with us making noise and playing some card game. Even though we were there to begin with, we thought we'd quiet down and the drunk guy went outside, because people were talking about him and making him feel self-conscious. It was a little cold outside but we went out with him to make him feel better and cause we wanted to be genuinely nice. Then one of the guys inside our house seems to be very intolerant of other people. I don't know how he does it but he came outside and said something about his sister dropping him off to be babysat because he was intoxicated and we were outside babying him. That was just rude and I don't know how he thought it. I would just think he was having fun and it made him feel a little less because how his life was making him feel.
Where do people like come from. How can people even think like that. I don't get it. Why not just accept people for who they are. Who cares if they get a little crazy some times. God loves everyone so why should we start judging how other people act. That same guy that said that just the other day got stoned drunk and was practically just making out with a girl on my living room floor. I could've cared less but it made someone else feel a little awkward.
I know, i know, we have to act all (insert word i can't think of) around other people so that they think of us a certain way. Okay, now here is where i have an issue. Well actually i have to clerify, there are ways of acting to make everyone uncomfortable on purpose and there are ways that is just accidental. Accidentally tripping into a pool and getting your clothes ripped off and what happens after that with the whole being naked is slightly comical and embarrasing. But purposefully jumping in to a pool and then ripping your clothes off and running through a mall is an entirely different situation, one in which is cause for a intervention. Seriously who want to see that but the perverts and those that want to be brave enough to do something so stupid.
Life is about fun i agree, but why ruin it with a stupid remark like saying that the way someone dresses or acts makes them a (enter word that is appropriate). You could politely and privately tell them that something is a little off, but don't announce it in front of a whole group of people. That's just not cool.
I guess for me life is like a box of chocolates, or a bed of roses, or a field of daisies, or a rock face.
Cause every day brings something new, new challenges, new ways of thinking, new experiences, and new people. Well maybe not new people everyday, but you get the picture. It's a nice picture, i took it with my camera, you should see it, it's neat.
Whether you are or aren't enjoying your day, try to make someone's......
